Ephesians 4:15-17 - Passage Lookup - New King James Version - BibleGateway.com: "15 but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ— 16 from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love."
According to this scripture we are all part of each other and that makes up the body of Christ.
What could we possibly be thinking when we try to ignore or judge someone who is not doing as good as we want them to or, think they should be.
2cor5:18;"Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us unto Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation."
Judging is not our job, reconciling is our job.
"Teach me to feel anothers woe,
to hide the fault I see;
The mercy I to others show,
that mercy show to me.--Pope
Overlook the faults of others and overcome your own.