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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Sisters {we need them}

  I imagine just about everyone has seen or read this as it was passed in emails; however it is something I believe that is worth saving and reading over as time goes by.         

 Thanks for being my "sister."

A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As
they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of
adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance
upon her daughter.
'Don't forget your Sisters,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll
be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you
love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.'
   'Remember that 'Sisters' means ALL the women... your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other
women relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women  always do.'
          What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman  thought. Haven't I just gotten married?
Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a  married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely
my husband and the family we may start will be all I  need to make my life worthwhile!'
    But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact  with her Sisters and made more women friends each
year. As the years tumbled by, one after another,  she gradually came to understand that her Mom really
knew what she was talking about. As time and nature  work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman,
          Sisters are the mainstays of her life.  After more than 50 years of living in this world,
here is what I've learned:
                                         THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how  many miles are
between you. A girl friend is never farther away  than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you  have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life
will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on
your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the  valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk  beside you...Or come in and carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers,
Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and ex tended  family, all bless our life!
The world wouldn't be the same without women, and  neither would I. When we began this adventure called
womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or  sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Every day, we need each other still. Pass this on.